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Purpose, Intention, Meaning, Significance

I usually think of things I want to write when I'm by myself.   I'm only truly alone when I'm hiking, running or cycling, and I decided I would capture a...
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Leading Means Leading Change

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Solitude… the essence of leadership?

In a speech to West Point plebes in 2009, William Deresiewicz concluded his remarks stating that solitude is the very essence of leadership.  A common refrain in our country is...
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The Opposite of Self-Reliant

Being dependent is the opposite of one who is self-reliant.  Self-reliant doesn't necessarily mean you go it alone.  On the contrary.  Self-reliant means knowing which questions to ask, and having...
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When Advice Really Matters…

Lately, I have heard a lot of people discuss the virtues of knowing what you know, knowing what you don't know, and being careful of not knowing what you don't...
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Listening + Enlightening = Teaching = Leadership

In my book, I wrote a chapter about hearing the unheard which underscored the subtitle of self-reliant leadership.  That is, self-reliant leadership is synonymous with knowing which questions to ask...
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Self Reliance at Seventy!

David Brooks wrote a column in The New York Times yesterday entitled, "The Life Report."  Mr. Brooks is asking those over 70 years old to "write a brief report on...
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Gold Star Dad

I spent an hour with Jeff Falkel last week, and walked away feeling like I'd know him my entire life - like a brother.  Jeff is a charismatic guy, and...
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Seanathair

Seanathair is Gaelic for grandfather, and I became one less than 72 hours ago.  It sounds cliché, but seeing my grandson for the first time was quite surreal.  He's a...
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9/11 – 9/11

On 9/11/01, I went for a run from my hotel to the Washington Monument.  Like I always did when I ran in D.C., I touched all four corners of the...
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